Calling all control freaks!!!

We love a plan don’t we?

We’ve done all the reading, signed up for sessions with an ‘expert’, done our homework and are hell bent on birth / life being the way we think best.

There’s a fine line though where that tips into “my life / baby’s birth MUST be…. (insert rigid demand here)”

You know when this happens as you start to feel contracted, like you’re holding on too tightly, forcing things…

This is when we have to let go… Soften…

Trust that we’ve done all we can and whilst there’s a lot we can control (the nature of ‘control’ is a whole other conversation for another time!) there are always some variables that are simply out of our hands.

Is there anything you’re trying to force into being?
Could you loosen up the hold on your expectations? How does that feel?