I have been sharing hypnobirthing since the beginning of 2009 and have seen perception and awareness of it grow and change in the nine years since then. There are a few different "brands" of using hypnosis for birth and lots of people claiming they offer 'hypnobirthing' now that it has increased in awareness - there' s no regulations so it's important you research who you choose to work with at this important chapter in your life. I believe it's important to work with the person in front of me and so bring my experience as a doula, clinical hypnotherapist, CBT counsellor, mindfulness coach and aromatherapist to offer a truly holistic antenatal preparation course. That's why it's Hypnobirthing+
What is hypnobirthing+?
Sometimes it’s easier to say what hypnobirthing ISN’T!
It IS grounded in science - you will gain an understanding of how the birthing muscles and hormones work in perfect harmony - as they were designed to - when your body is sufficiently relaxed and you trust birth.
It IS rational - you will discover how what's happening in your mind affects the physiology of your bodiy; and how to train that human mind of yours to work FOR you.
It IS for EVERY kind of birth experience - understanding your options opens them up. Making decisions based on intuitive intelligence means a calm, confident birth wherever and whenever.
It IS MORE than just for birth - this conversation, these skills we practice; it’s for mums and dads, it’s for all of us to use in life, work, play, the challenges and the opportunities in life
It IS using hypnotic tools - hence the HYPNO of hypnobirthing. This preparation goes much further than other antenatal preparation precisely because of the use of hypnosis. We work with both the conscious and the unconscious parts of the mind.
I’m a geek for the why of things and I appreciate you may be too. You can expect me to talk about neuroplasticity and all the latest understandings of how the mind and body work. You can expect me, however, to also talk about lunar cycles and channeling goddesses; I’ll probably mention how my grandmother was a witch and how women are like wolves too!
What do I get?
You will share twelve hours with me and a small group of like minded expectant parents. 12 hours packed with
Plus you’ll receive
Who is HypnoBirthing+ suitable for?
It’s for everyone! Seriously whether this is your first or sixth baby, it helps women who are scared of birth because they've never done it before, who are fearful because of a bad experience last time, or who just want a calmer, easier, more natural birth experience. We all bring the benefits and wisdom of previous experiences, and the baggage and beliefs that come from previous experiences too. Hypnobirthing+ is a chance to explore what our minds are saying to us and how our bodies are responding.
Hypnobirthing+ is not about a particular kind of birth, it’s about a particular kind of woman approaching birth. A strong, determined woman making good decisions for her and her child; not based on fear but information and instinct.
It doesn’t require any particular belief system, or prior experience. I have worked with women with IVF pregnancy, placenta praevia, obstetric cholestasis, gestational diabetes, "advanced maternal age" (drives me mad that expression!) and all manner of circumstances. Every woman's pregnancy and birth is unique and this approach helps everyone.
Do dads come too?
Absolutely! Everything we discuss throughout the course is relevant to every single one of us, whether pregnant or not (perineal massage may be an exception to this, although partners can help with this too!). Learning how to calm your nervous system, to ground your emotions and to integrate a helpful way of thinking are life skills for every single one of us. I have many partners tell me they're using the philosophy and techniques which have helped them work more effectively, sleep better and even pass driving tests!
Having a supportive partner who understands what helps and hinders the birth process and is confident in their role to support birth is integral to a positive birth experience which is why I have hypnosis sessions specifically recorded for expectant and new fathers. I find that some men beginning the course with me may not be quite sure why they’re there or indeed what they’re coming to. It’s these very same people who by the end of the course are driving everybody around them crazy as they extol the merits of hypnobirthing.
Can I come on my own?
You might be surprised how many women come on their own to the course for all sorts of reasons. Some are single parents, some partners can’t make it, we all have our stories don’t we? Some might decide to bring a friend, doula or mum, someone who will be there to support them during the birth; and some come along on their own - you’re the one doing this after all!
If you're doing the course on your own please don’t feel conspicuous, the sessions are small, friendly, informal gatherings and there's a special flying solo rate too - just tick the special box in the booking form.
Do I need to do NCT classes as well as HypnoBirthing+?
No. Hypnobirthing+ with me is a complete antenatal course, the one post-natal aspect I don't cover is parentcraft (changing nappies, bathing a baby etc) which is covered in the free NHS antenatal course offered by hospitals.
Most people I meet tell me they've booked NCT classes for the "social aspect" and to meet other parents to be. Did you know you don't have to do the antenatal course with the NCT to join their social groups? Membership of the NCT costs £40 and plugs you into the bump and baby/coffee morning/due date groups without having to pay for and do the antenatal course.
Did you also know that Hackney has one of the highest birth rates in Europe? Trust me, there is no shortage of support groups and other new parents around! When you book hypnobirthing you know that the others on the course will have a similar approach to life as you and you’re likely to get on. Plus getting to know me means getting in with the Born Together gang and we have LOADS going on!
Where and when are the courses?
I now exclusively share hypnobirthing+ in small groups at THE WELL GARDEN in Hackney. Having made my home here, together we have (quite literally) built the perfect space for us to explore this chapter in life in comfort.
Think Roman lounging den with soft lighting, plenty of cushions, lots of herbal teas, home-made snacks (along with chocolate biscuits obvs). Birth balls, cushions, bolsters and yoga mats encourage you to create your own little den as you take time out from everyday life to focus and explore this new chapter in life.
"I could literally give birth here!" has been said on more than one occasion during a session!
Pregnancy is a very personal experience, we all have a unique human mind and one of the main reasons why I created this comfy, safe space is so that you can unlock this philosophy and approach for yourself. The smaller groups I host ensure you have individual attention and I can be sure your questions and concerns are addressed whilst you also get to meet other local parents to be.
Small group courses
You can join a small group of parents-to-be for the course. Groups are kept small to ensure conversation and a tailored approach. Courses are popular so please book as soon as possible when you find the dates that suit you best.
This website is kept up to date on a daily basis so unless it says FULLY BOOKED next to dates you want, rest assured there's space and book your place! When it says "One place remaining" - that refers to space for a couple rather than person...
If your baby's likely to arrive before the next available class please do contact me to look into the possibility of doing some sessions privately.
The next courses held at THE WELL GARDEN, Hackney Downs Studios, E8 are:
Sundays October 21st, 28th, November 4th & 11th
3pm - 6pm
Mondays October 22nd, 29th, November 5th & 12th
7pm - 10pm
Wednesdays November 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th
7pm - 10pm
Sundays December 2nd, 9th & 16th then 6th January 2019
3pm - 6pm
Wednesdays December 5th, 12th, 19th then 9th January 2019
7pm - 10pm
Mondays 7th, 14th, 21st & 28th January 2019
7pm - 10pm
Wednesdays 23rd, 30th January, 6th & 13th February 2019
7pm - 10pm
Sundays 27th January, 3rd, 10th & 17th February 2019
3pm - 6pm
An evening immersion in hypnobirthing
Perfect for those who are practising hypnobirthing at home or are unable to make a whole course, this one off evening is an opportunity to immerse yourself in the approach and tools of hypnobirthing.
This is not an introduction to hypnobirthing. You will need to have read my book “Why Hypnobirthing Matters” (included), and I will send you some hypnosis audio recordings, birth films and prep work upfront for you to have engaged with before we meet so we can make best use of our time together.
Please note this is not the same as a hypnobirthing course which is a holistic total approach to antenatal preparation and parenting but I will supply you with the workbook I give to those doing the full course so you can see how the approach can be applied in these areas.
The total cost for both of you for this workshop and all materials, plus my ongoing support is £150.
These evenings are held once a quarter and the next hypnobirthing immersion evening is
Tuesday January 15th
6.30pm - 10pm
at The Well Garden
The financial investment for the course is for both mother and father (or birth companion), not per person.
Working with you in the way that works for you
Whilst I feel strongly that doing the course as I've tailored it is most beneficial - it gives you time to practice the techniques and allow your understanding and proficiency deepen, come back to me with questions and generally feel supported whilst learning about HypnoBirthing - I appreciate that not everyone's lives can accommodate such a commitment. I've had a couple travel over from Germany to London for a week to learn hypnobirthing with me and I've had couples call me for workshops just before their baby's EDD. If you're keen to learn hypnobirthing please do contact me and we'll work out a way of bringing it to life for you in a way that suits you.